Kanyindo's Random Ramblings

Last week on the show we were discussing a problem we’d read about in the paper.  This 24 year old woman had been in a relationship with her guy for over a year.  He’s a great guy, and he even went along with her decision not to be intimate before they got married. Problem is, he’s now started making mating noises, trying it on and leaving erection-shaped indentations in her back. What got to me is the guy told her point blank that he would rather leave her than stay in a sexless relationship, as he knows he would end up cheating on her.  So, dude issues an ultimatum, chick is left confused and stressed and writes to the newspaper agony aunt for advice. Now, I can’t speak for this particular woman, and I’m sure she has her own valid reasons for not wanting to sleep with the guy. But let’s look at this realistically. You’ve been with the guy for over a year.  What is holding you back?  Religion? Are you frigid? Or is there some other reason that ...

Ladies, we’ve all been there. You’ve been eyeing him for a while now, glancing up at him from under your eyelashes and doing your best to make meaningful eye contact with him.  Finally the connection is made and the two of you link up for a drink. Considering all the effort you put into getting him to notice you in the first place, you decide that tonight is all about being spontaneous.  Tonight, this guy is going down! Then the worst happens… he rejects you. You need to find a way to claw your way back from the humiliation.  It won’t be easy, but I’m here for you… Presenting:  Siima’s Top 5 Ways To Get Back At A Guy Who Has Rejected Your Advances. 5- Ignore him- That’s right.  Pretend he doesn’t exist and never did.  Speaking from experience, men hate being ignored.  You might still like him but DON’T give in.  No matter what.  Let him realize how insignificant he is to you.  Let him see his life. 4- Pimp y...